Indulgence

Hi forum!

Hope you're doing well.

My back still hurt a bit, but I'm feelin' a lot better.
Thanks for asking.
>:(

Anyway, we'll be right back after these commercials:

'This post was brought to you by - Procrastination!'

Um, yeah.

So, between school, exams, preparations, singing and piano lessons, socializing, sleeping, procrastinating and getting bad grades, I managed to squeeze in time to write this crap.
I'm amazing, yes, thank you.

What else is new.
Oh, yeah, I became a blood donor.
There was a woman that came last week to school in order to introduce us to the whole procedure of donating blood.
She was sweet and everything, but I was like:

'To give my blood from my body?'

...

...'Donors won't have to go to school for two days after the 'blood draining'.'

...

So I became a blood donor.

And when I told my boyfriend, he said:

'Oh, blood donating is a noble deed. You might save a life. I'm proud of you.'

... Sometimes I get the feeling I'm only doing stuff to make him praise me.

Buuut what the heck, I like to be praised.

~lovelovelovelovelovelove~

In any case, sure all of you must have wondered why is my blog called 'Loveable Indulgence'.

If you already found out by yourself, good job, let me know and you'll get a cookie.

No really, I'm serious.

So, those who didn't get it:

Well, let's rationalize for a bit.

First of all, we all know what indulgence is.

If you're interested a bit more in it, see the upper link, if you're not, well, no need, I'm going to elaborate it anyway.

Indulgence is, how I've seen it so far something related to Catholic Church that has been banned because of too much abusing.

It's like, you buy forgiveness from God for all your sins.

Not a really religious person here, but I think that's not how things work.

Anyway, the title doesn't have to do anything with religion, but it's somewhat a metaphor for our beloved gamer boyfriends.

See, in this case, we're the God, the game is a sin, and the gamer is a sinner.

And how does he buy our forgiveness? 

With love.

That's why it's loveable.

I mean, who else would put up with so much crap, except a girl in love?

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So let your boy tap his keyboard and enjoy yourself because you know you are loved. ♥

No?

Good.

Well, that was short but I enjoyed writing it.

Will come back with issues some time soon.

Now I have to sleep.

'Cause I was too busy writing this instead of studying.

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Jackass

Oh, hi.

Didn't see ya there.

Was too busy doing nothing.

...

Nah, not really.

My computer broke down, but it's okay now.

I'm took my little brother's.

He hates me now.

God, I'm such a mean person.

...

Also, I had a little accident.
I have to whine, I just have to.
Anyways, yesterday I was out with my friends to do some serious business training.
And after warming up and doing a lot of exercises, we decided to practice ukemi-s.
And it was going all well, until I decided to go pro and do an ukemi from a height that's not very easy to jump over.
And in the end, instead of doing this:

I kind of ended up like this:

And now I'm stuck at home.
For the rest of the spring break.
Yay me.

Well.
...At least I have coffee.

So, again, and for the last time, a little advertisement.

If you're here for the first time, you should stop by here.

And if you're not, well, thank you, keep it up.

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Aaanywhore, I spent a lot of time thinking what to write next.

I felt agitated because in situations like this you get a lot of things on your mind but have no clue how to start.

So one day I opened a blank page. And...

It remained blank.

You may hit me with whatever that's closest to you.

But, I was thinking a lot, and I noticed that the main issue of having a gamer boyfriend (we're still talking about gamer boyfriends, right?) is, well, that girls often feel lonely or neglected.

I mean, I do.
Right now I'm just dying to see a message from him just to check in on how am I.
/goes to see phone
Nope, nothing.

And that's the main reason that many couples break up. 

Everybody needs attention right?

So, here we go.

Now, I know what you're thinking.

I mean, why in the hell would anyone not break up with a boyfriend that's not paying attention to his girl?

I believe ya.

It really is as simple as that.

And I support it.

In... One way or another.

Now, I have to explain this in a way that won't be too demanding, because it really is complicated.

As I mentioned earlier, there are like, a million ways to get the attention of a gamer.

But girl, if you have to do that every single time, you're in a mess.

I mean, the things I suggested are not really the key to solving the whole issue of a gamer.

They're merely just something that could spice up a relationship. 

Nothing more than that. 

Hope that made things clear. 

Here, have a Grell for a reward.

Now, to elaborate all of this, let me tell you something.
In every freakin' relationship you'll come to a point where things somehow just don't work right.
And it can be frustrating, but it's nothing too serious.

For example, there are a lot of stuff to do: school, exams, work, etc.
Besides that, studying, getting enough sleep and having a social life also count.
It's fuc*ing tough, I say.
And a gamer can have all of that, and god damn it, also play games.
Where does the girlfriend fit in?
Almost nowhere.

U-huh.

That is, if you respect the guy's privacy.
I mean, he has friends.
He has a job/school/whatever, I guess.
And well, he won't always have the time to stop and talk to you for hours about how you broke your heel on the way back from a party, or how you lost your favourite necklace.
It's just not the way things work I guess.

So, in these situations, girls have 3 stages.

First one is:

Waiting

So, you call your boy to check in on him:
- He has chores.
- He has to study.
- He's out with friends.
- He's ingame.

And you're like: 'Oh, ok, sure, have fun, good luck, whatever. I'm off to cook. I'm gonna study too. Maybe have a cup of coffee with my friends.'
...
And after a while:
'God damn it, why isn't he calling?' ... 'It's all right, let him have his privacy.'
...
The morning after:
'Fu*k this sh*t, I'm gonna call him.'
You take out your phone and type in his number and then stare at it for a few minutes.
/inner self appears
'Nooo, don't be so pitiful, have some priiide, wait a little more.'


But you're like:

...
And then you decide not to anyways.
Then comes stage two:

Suffering


Trapped in your own pride, you sit at home and wait for a call, or a message.
You check your e-mail three times. Every minute.
You repeatedly refresh his facebook profile.
You visit almost every social network page you know he's on, except the site he made for his guild.
You don't even remember the name of that site, even if you decide to check it too.

And then, all of a sudden, crazy thoughts come to your mind.
He has another girlfriend.
He likes his games more than me.
He likes his friends more than me.
He likes his school more than me.
He has another girlfriend.
Yeah, that's it.
'Sweet Jesus, I'm such a fool.'

And then, you put your earphones in, play the most saddest, pathetic song ever and cry like a baby, having slow motion flashbacks of you and him having fun and running and holding hands and sh*t.

He doesn't love me!

Third stage:

Well...Fuck.

So, you're emotionally dead.

Ready, cool, calm, and all dreessed up in a bitchy attitude.

Just before you decide to end it all, a last minute message appears:

From: Douchebag Boyfriend 

(you changed his name from Sweetheart to this between eating ice cream and calling your best friend to tell her how badly he treats you)

'Hey sweetie.
Just wanted to let you know that I miss you.
♥'

And that's where it all stops.
'Aww, he sent me a heart, that's so sweet!'

/turns back his name
/replies with a heart

Aaand...
Everything is back to normal.
And you're like:

I mean... That's what happened to me a few times.
Maybe it's me... Yes? .. Maybe? ... No?
Forgive me.

Well, I wanted to spice it up a bit, to show you how every relationship basically looks like, not only a relationship between a gamer and non-gamer.
But girls really have a complicated mind.
So don't be fu*king surprised all of that can happen in one's head in less than a day.
...One does not simply underestimate a girls brain.

...

Well, that's about it for now.
I'm off to rest my back a little.
Maybe check my phone for messages, too.
Haha.

Hope you enjoyed, and remember:

'Cause you're a cool girlfriend. Yeah.